Currently I’m…

Reading… The Noticer by Andy Andrews
Playing… Bubble Witch
Watching… Downton Abbey
Trying… to understand probability, fallacies, and truth tables.
Cooking… Fish Tacos, yum!
Eating… Fish Tacos.
Drinking… way too much Mtn. Dew. I should stop. Again. Really.
Calling… my Mom.
Texting… Erin, to tell her how talented she is.
Pinning… Food ideas, and scrap pages.
Scrapping… Ranae’s book. Hopefully I get it done for Christmas.
Crafting… cute little Halloween eyes out of toilet paper rolls that you put glow sticks in.
Doing… math homework.
Going… to Olive Garden with the gift cards I won!
Loving… Sunday afternoon naps.
Hating… 2 of my 3 classes.
Discovering… that there is a way to let go and not let the past define me.
Enjoying… art history.
Thinking… about my football picks.
Feeling… busy, a little overwhelmed.
Hoping (for)… a quiet evening
Listening (to)… Pandora, AWOL Nation radio
Celebrating… Paige’s speech and debate success and Tyler’s football season.
Smelling… Fall leaves. They leave colored marks on the sidewalk as they rot. Almost like a henna stain.
Considering… getting the kids cell phones before the agreed upon requirements     are met. Ugh.
Finishing… organizing the tupperware cupboard.
Starting… to redo the monthly budget.

It’s so important to take care of the things that matter!

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Such wise words! Too often, we treat things like they are ruined, beyond repair, or just broken. That maybe once the dent is there, or a scratch that is noticeable, we no longer give it the care it deserves.

I know that marriage is a frustrating thing, and family life is many things, including pleasant and painful. I also know that they deserve our full attention and devotion. It isn’t always easy, and sometimes we get pretty banged up along the way, but I think these words are true and a good reminder that it might be time to pick this thing up out of the dirt and dust, and give it a good polish.

Excerpt from: Free Forever, to Act for Themselves, by Elder D. Todd Christofferson

William Shakespeare’s play The Life of King Henry V includes a nighttime scene in the camp of English soldiers at Agincourt just before their battle with the French army. In the dim light and partially disguised, King Henry wanders unrecognized among his soldiers. He talks with them, trying to gauge the morale of his badly outnumbered troops, and because they do not realize who he is, they are candid in their comments. In one exchange they philosophize about who bears responsibility for what happens to men in battle—the king or each individual soldier.

At one point King Henry declares, “Methinks I could not die any where so contented as in the king’s company; his cause being just.”

Michael Williams retorts, “That’s more than we know.”

His companion agrees, “Ay, or more than we should seek after; for we know enough, if we know we are the king’s subjects: if his cause be wrong, our obedience to the king wipes the crime of it out of us.”

Williams adds, “If the cause be not good, the king himself hath a heavy reckoning to make.”

Not surprisingly, King Henry disagrees. “Every subject’s duty is the king’s; but every subject’s soul is his own.”1

Shakespeare does not attempt to resolve this debate in the play, and in one form or another it is a debate that continues down to our own time—who bears responsibility for what happens in our lives?

When things turn bad, there is a tendency to blame others or even God. Sometimes a sense of entitlement arises, and individuals or groups try to shift responsibility for their welfare to other people or to governments. In spiritual matters some suppose that men and women need not strive for personal righteousness—because God loves and saves us “just as we are.”

But God intends that His children should act according to the moral agency He has given them, “that every man may be accountable for his own sins in the day of judgment.”2 It is His plan and His will that we have the principal decision-making role in our own life’s drama. God will not live our lives for us nor control us as if we were His puppets, as Lucifer once proposed to do. Nor will His prophets accept the role of “puppet master” in God’s place. Brigham Young stated: “I do not wish any Latter Day Saint in this world, nor in heaven, to be satisfied with anything I do, unless the Spirit of the Lord Jesus Christ,—the spirit of revelation, makes them satisfied. I wish them to know for themselves and understand for themselves.”3

So God does not save us “just as we are,” first, because “just as we are” we are unclean, and “no unclean thing can dwell … in his presence; for, in the language of Adam, Man of Holiness is his name, and the name of his Only Begotten is the Son of Man [of Holiness].”4 And second, God will not act to make us something we do not choose by our actions to become. Truly He loves us, and because He loves us, He neither compels nor abandons us. Rather He helps and guides us. Indeed, the real manifestation of God’s love is His commandments.